sympathy ecards

a sympathy card,
in your own words.

A sympathy ecard that arrives today: your condolence message in your own words, in a quiet scene with soft music or none at all. No confetti and nothing to play. They open it when they are ready.

$4.99 once, per card. No subscription, nothing renews. Photos, a video or a voice note are included. They need no app and no account.

Next: write it and see it first, no account needed. You pay only when you send it, with just your email.

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Choose how it opens

Prefer an illustrated card? Pick a paper-craft scene and an envelope to open.

  • By the sea
  • Olive branch
  • Poppies

What goes in a sympathy card

Only what comforts.

  • Your words

    A few plain lines, written by you. Short is kind.

  • A quiet look

    Still water at dusk or olive leaves, with tender music they can turn off, or none.

  • A photo, if it helps

    One of them together, or of the person as you remember them.

  • Messages from others

    Friends or colleagues each add a line from one link, so the family reads them in one place.

Condolence messages to start from

Plain words are the right ones. Change the names and the memory.

  • A friend

    I am so sorry about your mum. She made everyone feel welcome at her table, me included. I am here, today and in the weeks after.

    Make it yours: Name who they lost, and one thing you remember.

  • A colleague

    I was so sorry to hear about your father. Please do not think about work. We have it covered for as long as you need.

  • From a team

    All of us are thinking of you and your family. Take the time you need. We will be here when you are back.

  • When you did not know them

    I never met your brother, but I know what he meant to you. I am so sorry. I am thinking of you.

  • The loss of a partner

    There are no right words. I loved seeing the two of you together, and I am so sorry. I will call on Sunday.

  • Short

    I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts.

  • Some time later

    It has been a few months and I wanted you to know I have not forgotten. Thinking of you today.

What to write in a sympathy card

  • Say you are sorry, and say the person's name.
  • Share one memory, however small.
  • Offer something you will do: a meal on Thursday, the school run.
  • Leave out reasons and silver linings.

Questions

Is an ecard right for a condolence?
A card in your own words, sent the day you hear, is kinder than a perfect one sent late. Many people send this first and a posted card after.
Will it play music or animations?
No celebration of any kind. It opens in a quiet scene with soft music, which you or they can switch off.
Can our whole team sign one card?
Yes. Share the card's invite link and each person adds their own message, with no account. How group cards work
Can I send a card by post too?
Yes. A pen writes your message in real ink and we post it. Handwritten sympathy cards
Is it free?
Making and previewing a card is free, and only you can see it. You pay once per card when you unlock it to send.

More on digital greeting cards, or send a handwritten sympathy card by post.

Something else in mind? a pet sympathy card or a thinking of you card.

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Write it, preview it, and send the link when you are ready. You only pay when you unlock it.

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